September 24th, 2014 
11:26 pmLately I’ve been feeling like the new neighbor lady has ruined mine and my friend’s friendship. I noticed my friend will talk more and pay more attention to her than me, even though we’ve been friends for over a year and the new lady has only been here a few months. I don’t really like her, she seems to know everything about everyone around here for only living here for a few months. She knows things like who is late on their rent, who is renewing or not renewing their lease, etc. She acts like she owns the place. I’ve been here 3 years and I don’t act like that. She’s one of those. Both my friend and I have been warned about her. I know that if I say anything about my friend to her she’ll run and tell her everything I said, even things I didn’t say. It’s like she wants to get my friend and I to fight on purpose. I wish she never moved in, honestly. She sometimes acts like she’s my mother and can tell me what to do because she’s older.
Apartment living I guess, sometimes you get wackos who move in.
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Wow, she sounds super annoying. Can you talk to a landlord about it? I’m sure it borders on being a public nuisance or something. Also talk to your friend, privately, about it. Let her know that you feel like this woman is getting between you two and you feel like she is a toxic person. Of course, do it without being blamey towards your friend. As a last resort, maybe call the woman out on her nosy behavior. When she starts talking about someone else’s business, ask her why she knows, why she needs to know, and why she thinks it’s her business to know other people’s business. Remind her that she’s not your mom when she bosses you around. Don’t take shit from other people!
@Arwen, That would just cause more drama and I don’t want that, there’s enough of that around here, lol.
I’ve always had disruptive neighbors. Since I’ve moved around a lot I always thought maybe the next ones would be better but never happened [-X. Hopefully things get better then worse but it’s easier said than done. Maybe you should tell you friend how your feeling but then again you know her better but if you feel it’s getting to be too much then telling her can help? :S
Friendship is not a complicated issue, if you lose your friend because of that lady this means that it wasn’t a strong and clear friendship, however, if your relationship continue this means that nothing could break it.
Ugh, she sounds like a pain! I think we’ve been pretty lucky to not have any neighbors like that, but also we never lived in an apartment. So maybe that’s just apartment life? :-? Hopefully you can figure out something to get you and your friends relationship back on track. I know the pain and problems of having a friend meet someone new and just completely moving on and you feeling like you have to continuously bug your friend to stay on their mind, not fun. :| Hopefully you figure things out!